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Because I have struggled with this question myself for many years and it is without question one of the most vexing questions of our lifetime.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>The following scenario may be familiar to you:<\/p>\n<p>Somebody: \u201cCan you please tell me what is success?\u201d<br \/>\nYou: \u201cSatisfied with life\u201d<br \/>\nSomebody: \u201cHow do you feel satisfied with life?\u201d<br \/>\nYou: \u201cHaving happiness\u201d<br \/>\nSomebody: \u201cWhat is happiness to you?\u201d<br \/>\nYou: \u201cHaving a lot of money and my own house!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Can you see how this is a bit like a blind mouse trying to escape from a complex maze. No wonder so many people spend their lives feeling unfulfilled because they have never quite figured out what fulfillment means. We have a sort of fuzzy idea about the meaning of success and fulfillment and generally go about life as if this vague description will do. Secretly, however, we have this nagging feeling that something is amiss. Success has to be something else.<\/p>\n<p>One thing is for sure. Success can&#8217;t be exactly the same for everyone. What success means to me and what it might mean to you can be and will be very different. But is there a common core, a necessary set of ingredients, that will inevitably exist in everyone&#8217;s case? The common dictionary version of success is &#8220;<em>the attainment of wealth, favor or eminence<\/em>&#8220;.\u00a0 Zig Ziglar &#8211; a well-known success expert says &#8220;<em>success is comprised of many things<\/em>&#8220;.\u00a0 Zig has provided a clue\u00a0 but not the full answer.<\/p>\n<p>So what are these many things? These are the many outcomes and metrics that people aspire to achieve. These are usually related to:<\/p>\n<p>1- Financial &#8211; An amount of money by a certain time or a possession (land, house, car)<br \/>\n3- Social &#8211; A relationship (a first date, getting married, being part of a community)<br \/>\n4- Recognition &#8211; Some significance (becoming well-known or famous or recognized)<br \/>\n5- Physical &#8211; A physical state (energetic, physically fit)<br \/>\n6- Emotional &#8211; A mental or emotional or spiritual state<\/p>\n<p>When asked if they were successful, extremely wealthy business people have been known to have said no. Top athletes in peak physical condition have said no they haven&#8217;t found success as yet.\u00a0 In fact, none of the above 6 achievements can translate to a sense of success on their own.<\/p>\n<p>The true definition of <strong>success is not a single metric<\/strong>; <strong>it is a combination of\u00a0 metrics. <\/strong>The combination can be different for everyone but the ingredients remain the same.\u00a0 The famous author and motivational coach Anthony Robbins has written in his books that\u00a0 success is a combination of financial, physical and emotional well-being.<\/p>\n<p>Mother Theresa never had money but she had social status,\u00a0 worldwide recognition and an unmatched spirituality.\u00a0Successful people have become so not just through acquisition and accumulation but also through giving and sharing what they possess: wealth, knowledge, skills, expertise, kindness, time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many of us really understand what success actually means? The truth is that most people have absolutely no clue about this and the majority of those who have created a definition are likely to be wrong. How do I know this? 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