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This assessment of you comes before they buy what you have to offer: ideas, recommendations, products, services etc. Irrespective of the situation you are in &#8211; professional, business, social &#8211; you have to sell yourself to get to first base with anyone&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Most people don&#8217;t realize that the impression they make on other people counts as much if not more than the content of the interaction. You may have heard the phrase &#8220;you are the presentation&#8221; when the subject of presentation skills comes up. This is so true. If only people who were presenting &#8211; like sales people &#8211; spent as much time &#8220;preparing&#8221; themselves as they spent preparing their Powerpoint slides.<\/p>\n<p>How you come across to other people even before you have said your first word is not some fancy &#8220;body language&#8221; esoteric stuff. The first impression you create matters immensely. \u00a0So what goes into this preparation to make a good impression? Here are some key things to remember:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be punctual<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Arriving for a meeting or professional engagement 5 minutes late, breathless and apologetic, is not a great way to make an impression.\u00a0\u00a0Always try to be 10-15 minutes early. Other than being punctual, you will also have time to settle down and get ready for your meeting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dress appropriately<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It does count if you&#8217;re dressed and groomed appropriately. In order to be viewed as someone who is a competent professional, you have to\u00a0dress and act like one. You don&#8217;t have to be formally dressed if the situation does not require formal dressing but it is not acceptable to go to a work meeting dressed as if you are hanging around at home on a lazy Sunday morning.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Check your grooming<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The impression you make is not just based on the way you dress. The kinds of things that will hurt professional relationships and your overall credibility are:<\/p>\n<p>-poorly groomed hands, hair or teeth<br \/>\n-excessive body odor<br \/>\n-too much cologne or perfume<br \/>\n-too much jewelry<br \/>\n-frayed diaries that look like they were borrowed from dad<\/p>\n<p>People work with definite preferences about the kinds of people they wish to deal with and there is no guarantee that you will create a positive impression each time. If you can&#8217;t make a positive connection, you can be sure that your audience will put up a wall of resistance. That is the just the way things are. It is human instinct.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People Buy From You &#8211; Management Development Weblog<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,3],"tags":[40],"class_list":["post-1026","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-effectiveness","category-sales-and-marketing","tag-self-improvement-2","post-preview"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1026","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1026"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1026\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1032,"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1026\/revisions\/1032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1026"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1026"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mdi.com.pk\/management\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1026"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}